They like me... They like me not...

Hey guys,

I would just like to say Happy Easter! And also I've come to a conclusion on posting. I shall post every Saturday (even though its Monday. Don't Judge!).

So today I'm going to talk about relationships. Now only a couple minutes ago did I get inspiration on writing a post on inspiration from one of my all time favourite 'little' blogs (you know who you are from the little hint.

I've come to terms that relationships between two people in a romantic way are a tad odd but great when you are in one. I feel that if you say you have found love at 12 that it may not last and you'll break up soon (just my opinion and from what I have witnessed).

 I have come to conclusion that the feelings you feel towards one person start to come into realization of possibly 'love' when you are around 15 or over. I think this because when you are younger you don't know what love truly except what you have seen in the films and it becomes something you want. Sometimes when we're younger we get ourselves into these relationship for either pranks or because of popularity (again I'm not trying to offend it's just what I have witnessed).

I know some people in my year have already started some long term relationships and I am happy for them, but although I long for one I don't think I would appreciate it enough because of my age. I think if I get myself into a relationship I will start to realise that it was probably a mistake and that I'm not ready for something like that.

Now, this doesn't mean you cant be in a relationship at a certain age to know it's love. Whether you're twelve or thirty-five, love comes from all around the place and if it lands on you then keep it and cherish that feeling for as long as possible.

So as I'm talking about relationships here are some tips on how you know you like someone and could possibly share a future with them.

1) They have to be real (sorry for the people who love fictional characters including me :( )
2) You share the same interest. Whether its rock, country or pop music or video games or photography, something you both enjoy is a good starter.

3) Talking to them. If you are on a talking basis and are aleast at an acquaintance level then that helps too. You can't just go up to someone and say
"Hey we never talk but by the way I like so can we go out?"
You will most likely end up with a 'no' for an answer which is not something you particularly want to hear.

4) A thing that helps with liking someone is creating a Pro's and Con's list. It helps to create one because then you know what your getting yourself into with this could be date of yours. And if the outcome is 50/50 then you'll have to let your heart choose which is a tough thing.

5) A future. Do you see a future with this person. even if it's for a day, month or even a year you have to think about seeing yourself with this person. This I think, is the key on a relationship because there is no point in getting into a relationship and think 'why am I with them again? I don't want to be them!'


I know this is the weirdest thing to go into a post about my view on relationships and then going into on how to obtain one but I just though I'd mash the two together and see what the outcome is.
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Till next post ma friends
PointlessGirl